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Title: Healing the Unaffirmed:   Recognizing Emotional Deprivation Disorder 

Author: Conrad W. Baars, M.D. & 
Anna A. Terruwe, M.D., Ph.D.
Revised by Suzanne M. Baars, M.A.
ISBN: 0-8189-0918-8 
Paperback: xvi + 222 pp. 
Price: $13.95 + shipping 


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Why do so many patients fail to respond to psychiatric therapy? Because not all disorders are caused by the repression of emotions. The authors have shown convincingly that a specific syndrome develops when a person has been deprived of affirming love. Analytic or solely cognitive or behavioral therapies do not bring lasting healing, or are of no avail in these unaffirmed persons, since they have never repressed their feelings. Anti-depressants, shock therapy, or other therapeutic interventions often only worsen their suffering. What the unaffirmed person needs is affirmation therapy, which entails far more than simply giving "T.L.C." (Tender Loving Care). Rather, this therapy involves the healing of the whole person -- body, mind and spirit. Recognizing emotional deprivation disorder is the first step in correcting, through affirmation, many grave individual and global ills. Authentic affirmation brings about peace, self-confidence and joy. 
 
Anna A. Terruwe, M.D., Ph.D., is retired and lives in the Netherlands. She earned her M.D. at the University of Utrecht and her Ph.D. at the University of Leiden. Known as the discoverer of new syndromes dealing with the energy and frustration neuroses, she treated patients from all over Western Europe. Pope Paul VI called her work "a special gift to the Church." Dr. Terruwe is the author of many books, a number of which have been translated into German, French and English. Some of the best known are Emotional Growth in Marriage and The Neurosis in the Light of Rational Psychology.

Conrad W. Baars, M.D. was a native of the Netherlands but practiced psychiatry in the United States from 1946 until his death in 1981. Educated at Oxford University and the University of Amsterdam Medical School, Dr. Baars served in the anti-Nazi underground in Belgium, France, and Holland during World War II. Captured by the Nazis he spent two years in Buchenwald Concentration Camp. During the Korean War he served in the American Army as a medical officer. He discovered Dr. Terruwe's work in the mid-fifties and developed and promoted it throughout his psychiatric career. He lectured widely and authored many articles and books including Born Only Once, Feeling & Healing Your Emotions, The Psychology of Obedience, and The Unquiet Heart. His extraordinary life story is recorded in the book Doctor of the Heart (Alba House, 1996). 

Reviews

"Affirmation and Healing: This second edition (25 years after the first) of Healing the Unaffirmed: Recognizing Emotional Deprivation Disorder is revised and updated to reflect changes in the psychiatric practice and society. Dr. Suzanne Baars offers the second edition of the scholarly work -- by original authors Dr. Conrad W. Baars and Dr. Anna A. Terruwe -- to help psychiatrists and therapists understand "emotional depravation disorder," a disorder that can present itself like other problems and can be frustrating for doctors and spiritual advisers because it does not respond to traditional psychotherapy. Reaching people in therapy can be helped with the understanding available in this book -- as long as the therapist or adviser recognizes the symptoms of the disorders that stem from a lack of emotional affirmation and love given to an infant when growing up. With emotional and spiritual therapy, the person can be taught to overcome the difficulties inherent in themselves and be happier, productive members of society." --Crux of the News, February 17, 2003

"I have had the pleasure of interviewing Suzanne Baars many times on the topic of deprivation neurosis. In her interviews she has described the causes, effects, and cures for this well-defined syndrome discovered by the pioneering work of Anna A. Terruwe, M.D., and her father, Conrad W. Baars, M.D. The response to Suzanne's television and radio interviews has been overwhelming. I believe it is because people recognize themselves in the deprivation syndrome Suzanne describes, and have been seeking resolution for its long-term and often emotionally crippling effects. Dr. Baars and Dr. Terruwe did the clinical world a great service through their discovery and study of this malady, and through the initial release of their book, Healing the Unaffirmed: Recognizing Deprivation Neurosis, Suzanne Baars has done the general audience a great service by discussing the neurosis' symptoms and causes in the broadcast format, and through the new release of this classic work. --Johnette S. Benkovic, Television and Radio Host

"This book is a guide for healing persons who have not been affirmed or loved -- a wound occurring frequently in our narcissistic culture. In this book the reader learns of the etiology, symptoms, and treatment of emotional deprivation disorder -- a severe lack of love -- or its milder form -- the unaffirmed state. The authors describe the symptoms experienced by those who suffer from emotional underdevelopment: self-centeredness, feelings of inferiority, anxiety, insecurity and lack of emotional rapport with others. The authors also explain the principles of affectivity whereby the therapist can nurture the client's heart through a wholistic approach that fosters emotional maturity. This book is a help and source of hope." --Fr. William D. Virtue, STD

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