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More than being just a "born Catholic," Philip Maynard has had the
unique experience of growing up in a home in which his father, Theodore Maynard, and his
mother, Sara, wrote many lives of the saints. It was only natural that these heroes of
the Church should become his heroes in a special way. Later, he was able to overcome alcoholism
only by turning to the example of Matt Talbot, the Irishman who is a hero to many reformed
alcoholics and himself now a candidate for sainthood. Maynard is a lawyer who writes on estate
planning matters. He lives in Baltimore with his wife Agnes, and his two sons, Kevin and Peter.
Reviews
A few months ago, I was given your book To Slake a Thirst by a friend of mine. It changed my life! For years I have been struggling both with alcohol addiction as well as my spiritual life, never making progress with either, until your book. One of my favorite quotes from Divine Scripture is from the letter of St. John, "It is not that we have first loved God, but that He has loved us." That is what the Matt Talbot way "makes real" in the soul: God really, REALLY loves me; he has shown me His love in the offering of Jesus as if I were the only person on earth. He desires us so much. Thank you for writing the book, for following the inspiration of the Holy Spirit and helping so many people. Your book is such a treasure, a sure way to grow in love with Christ. I wish it could be shared with the whole world. --Claudia N. Robuck, March 24, 2008
"Maynard has reduced the life of Matt Talbot (an alcoholic Irish Catholic who died in 1925) to
its essence, evolving from it a program that he calls the Matt Talbot Way to Sobriety. In a word,
'the way' is to develop through a life of prayer and good works a relationship with Jesus Christ,
finding in him the one whose living water quenches thirst. Befriending Christ gives a positive
motivation to quit drinking. It worked for Talbot, whose life was transformed by the love of
Christ to the point of great personal holiness; he has been declared 'venerable' by the Church.
it also worked for the author, who himself stopped drinking, and for countless other alcoholics.
'Rather than passively praying to God to stop you from drinking,' writes Maynard, 'you actively
reach out and take what God has been offering you all along. What you take is not sobriety, but
rather the love of Christ.' The path requires seven daily steps: a daily offering, dedication of
prayers of the day, Christ-centered prayer (such as the Jesus pryaer), spiritual reading, short
prayers during the day, evening prayer, and Christian living. The same tenets can be applied to
other compulsive behaviors whether overeating or drug abuse. This well-written book may help
persons who have tried AA or Rational Recovery without success, but who still want to stop
drinking. A handbook, it is also a primer in prayer." --Karen Sue
Smith in Church, Winter 2001
"The Church honors All Saints on November 1st as models of virtue that we can emulate, not
worship. Anyone dealing with alcoholism or another addiction might find a soulmate in the 20th
century Irish saint, Matt Talbot. This modern saint, who lived a life of drunkenness in Dublin
pubs until the day he chose Christ over the bottle, is profiled in the book To Slake a Thirst:
The Matt Talbot Way to Sobriety. Different from Alcoholics Anonymous, the 'Matt Talbot' way
shows another path to beat addictions by making Christ the center of each day. It may not work
for everyone, the author says, but it is another way to strengthen one's spiritual as well as
physical health." --Catholic Extension Magazine, November 2001
"I must confess I knew little if anything about Matt Talbot until one of his devotees, Philip
Maynard, a Baltimore lawyer and estate planning expert, brought him to my attention in a book he
has just written that should be a great boon to any Christian preparing to do battle with demon
rum. Matt Talbot, an Irish layman known as 'the saint in overalls,' and an active candidate for
beatification any time now, is regarded as a special example for reformed alcoholics, and it was
through his unique Christ-centered approach that Mr. Maynard found his own path to recovery from
alcoholism. Mr. Maynard's book is a do-it-yourself manual that, its author says, should be followed
step by step, but he cautions it is not necessarily for all alcoholics or drug addicts.... Down and
out at age 28 after 15 years of steady, hard drinking, Matt Talbot finally decided he had to quit,
and even though he wasn't the most devout or knowledgeable of Catholics, he knew somehow he needed
to draw on his faith if he were going to kick his destructive habit.... At first, Matt took the
pledge for three months, then for a year, and finally for life. He began a life of prayer and
penance that continued until his death.... The Matt Talbot way to sobriety that Mr. Maynard has
constructed doesn't require the severe penance the Irish dock worker imposed on himself, but it
does persuasively call for a kind of spiritual self-discipline and consistency that Mr. Maynard,
calling on his own life experience, believes is essential to recovery. Few of us are untouched by
alcoholism and its tragic effects in some way, either personally or through family members or
friends. Mr. Maynard's book could make a break-through difference in many lives."
--Christopher Gaul in the Baltimore Archdiocesan newspaper,
The Catholic Review, December 21, 2000
"I have taken some time to read through your book and I am very impressed. I now understand
why the Matt Talbot Way is different from other ways.... I like very much the positive and profoundly
particular spiritual approach that you are taking. In fact in parts of the book, you are
describing a spirituality that is very serious and mature. I can imagine how attractive many
people would find such an approach. May God use [your book] as an instrument to help many many
people draw closer to Him and to cooperate with the grace that is offered to all of us. may this
espcially be true for people who find themselves caught in particular attachments."
--George Aschenbreunner, S.J., Jesuit Center for Spiritual Growth,
Wernersville, PA
"Spirituality: Some fine advice on prayer, one among many unexpected 'finds' in a new book
by Baltimore-based attorney Philip Maynard. Title: To Slake a Thirst: The Matt Talbot Way to
Sobriety. Himself a recovering alcoholic, the author brings experience and observations, touching
on various tasks, e.g., 'Getting Started' and 'Spiritual Motivation.' Part Two looks at the life
of Matt Talbot. Of note: The third section examines how the same principles useful in attaining
and maintaining sobriety can be used to control weight and cigarette use." --
Crux of the News, December 11, 2000
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